I have had my house for six months and it has provided me with so much opportunity to learn. It has created an endless number of questions, to which I get French answers, and other questions to which I have to let go and try to understand. The house may be my best French teacher of all time (but, I still love MKB for those of you who know her).
The first thing the house has taught me is vocabulary. There are so many words for things in a house and things you need to fix a house that I just never knew! I’m not sure I know them all in English, so this complicates things even more. I have spent hours in French DIY stores, which I have now come to love, just looking at the names of things. It is even more difficult when you need to buy something, like a sink stopper. How do you say that? I ended up with “the thing you put in the sink to keep the water from escaping” and then just ordered them on Amazon!
The second thing the house has taught me is community. In just six months there is a whole host of characters in my life in France that I never knew before. It reminds you that people are good and you can always find and make friends if you try. The best of these new people in my French house life is Sue, who take care of the house. I have learned so much from her and she has been wonderful.
The final thing that the house has taught me, and reminded me every day, is that there is really no right or wrong in the world. You can do anything anyway and it works. My favorite was the idea to put yogurt down the toilet to keep the septic tank working! It makes perfect sense when you think about it, but I had to think about it when I heard it the first time. We just get so used to our own ways that we start to think that are the only way. My house is reminding me that this is just my own lens and it is important to keep those lenses open and moving.
So thank you, Holly’s House in France for a good first six months!